If Your Guy Does These 5 Things, He’s Likely A Sociopath

Sometimes we get so wrapped up in the excitement of something new, we lose sight of what’s best and healthy for our lives. This can mean overdoing it with an exercise regimen or diet, it can mean missing important details about a new job; and it can most certainly relate to our relationships.
The lure and sparkle of a partnership can blind us to areas of incompatibility or relationship red flags.
While personality quirks or bad habits can be overlooked or change over time, there are some red flags that should not be ignored as they might be indicative of more serious—even dangerous—concerns.
Relationships can make us want to explain away or even deny uneasy feelings, but these red flags should never be ignored.

1. Your partner is quick to become angry, yell or throw things.
Everyone gets angry sometimes, it’s the frequency and severity of your partner’s reactions that should act as a guide for your concerns. Expressing anger, even by yelling, can release tension, frustration and pain—if done in a safe manner; but it should not be used as a method of control in any situation.
Using anger to instill fear in another is unacceptable behavior in any relationship.
Pay attention to the direction your partner’s anger is directed.
Are you the recipient of a barrage of nasty words? Are you expected to absorb the negativity, even if you had nothing to do with the situation? Are you often blamed for your partner’s horrible mood? Does your body ever register fear when your partner erupts?
If you are answering ‘yes’ to any of these questions, you may need to take a step back from the situation to observe your partner’s patterns. Objectively witness. Look for common triggers and consistent reactions.
Bring the issue to light through calm, assertive conversations when you’re both in a good mood and see if the issue can be remedied. If you discover it can not, removing yourself from the relationship may be the best thing for your mental and spiritual well-being, as well as your physical safety.

2. Your partner shows signs of secretive behaviors or excessive lying.
Fact: you can not have a healthy relationship without honesty. This is a non-negotiable component of a strong partnership. If your partner seems as if they’re up to no good, they very well might be.
If your partner seems to keep you compartmentalized from certain areas of their life, this might be a red flag for dishonesty.
Similarly, if, on a regular basis, your partner refuses to discuss other aspects of their day, keeping details of his or her whereabouts or activities from you, this could be indicative of a greater problem. If they are unwilling to share even the most benign details of their life with you, how are you to connect on a more intimate level? Not to mention, what exactly are they hiding?
Now, there is a difference between being a private person and being secretive. Perhaps your partner likes to have an hour or two of quiet after work; maybe texts coming or going late at night aren’t appreciated—these might be signs of a person who prioritizes time alone rather than a person who’s living a double life.

3. Your partner shows drastic, sudden changes in behavior and/or mood.
Maybe you found a relationship that worked in all the right ways: the two of you are compatible, have a strong network of friends, have a great s*x life and genuinely enjoy each other’s company. Life (and love) is good.
If all of this feel-goodness seems to vaporize over night, you have a red flag on your hands.
There are 100 reasons your partner’s persona can shift, even dramatically. Before diving into the bottomless pool of worst-case scenarios, decide if an event has flipped their world upside-down. Did your partner lose a job recently? Is there an illness in the family or a sudden, tragic event that may have spun their insides into a knot of stress? Trauma—in any form—can do crazy things to our sense of well-being, so it’s best to tread lightly while you figure out the source.
If all the not-so-horrific scenarios are ruled out, listen to your gut. Is infidelity a possibility? Are there other warning signs of unfaithfulness accompanying her sudden changes in mood? Again, shifts in mood can mean many things, but they’re undoubtedly a red flag for a bigger problem.

4. Your partner shows signs of extreme, possessive behavior.
There is such thing as taking a healthy interest in your partner’s life. Whether you live together or not, basic “how was your day,” “what did you do today” conversation is perfectly normal and expected.
If your partner’s interest in your day-to-day activities seems a little much, it may be cause for concern.
Some of the earliest red flags of an abusive relationship begin with seemingly harmless questions. If your partner’s gentle “how was your day” turns to much more invasive questions like “who were you with” or “what time did you go to the store/what time did you leave the store,” he may be exhibiting overly-possessive behaviors.
If these types of interactions are coupled with an over-commitment to knowing your whereabouts—they check up on you at work, arrives unannounced to wherever you are, calls or texts excessively, guilts you into staying home, isolates you from friends or family—you may be putting yourself in a dangerous situation and should reach out to a trusted friend, family member or, if you feel your safety is in jeopardy, the Victim’s Resource Center.

5. Your partner doesn’t say “I’m sorry.”
While this may not seem like as big a deal as the previous red flags, the inability to say “I’m sorry” to a partner can have far-reaching repercussions. If your partner refuses to apologize when he or she has done something wrong, this is a red flag for a perception of inequality in the relationship.
This inequality can be interpreted two ways, however; your task will be to uncover the ‘why’ before you can address the issue.
In the first scenario, an inability to say “I’m sorry” can be a way for your partner to project dominance or superiority in the relationship. When faced with a problem, you partner will unload responsibility to any one other than him or herself. They’ll talk around the issue instead of addressing it in a direct manner. They storm off to avoid confrontation only to return later as if nothing happened.
These are all red flags; and by accepting this behavior, you send the message that this is acceptable, that you don’t deserve honesty, that you are not equals in the partnership.
In the second scenario, I speak from experience; there are times when an apology has deep, nasty roots of inadequacy. Apologies are an admission of guilt, which is essentially saying, “I’m not perfect.” None of us are perfect, it’s true, but to expose yourself in such a way with the one you love leaves you vulnerable to criticism or rejection.
It wasn’t until my partner brought my conspicuously absent apologies to my attention that I even recognized the problem. After many (many) conversations and a whole lot of practice, I’ve learned to apologize when I’m in the wrong—even when it hurts like hell.

Pastor rapes 16-year- old during three-day deliverance prayer

The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a pastor, Abraham Sunday, for allegedly raping a 16-year-old girl, Kike (pseudonym) in Adalemo Estate, in the Toll Gate area, on the Lagos-Abeokuta Expressway.

PUNCH Metro learnt that Sunday, the pastor of Christ In All Nations Church in Adalemo, was arrested by the Ojokoro Police Division last Wednesday, September 2, from where he was taken to the Department of Criminal Investigation, Yaba.

It was gathered that Kike, who was ill, had been taken by the pastor to a house in Adalemo Estate on August 28 for deliverance prayer when the incident occured.

It was learnt that the victim’s mother, who said Sunday was a family friend, became apprehensive after she did not hear from her daughter.

The matter was said to have been reported to the police by the landlord of the house where Sunday allegedly camped the teenager to rape her.

A police source told our correspondent that after Kike was rescued, she was taken to a hospital, where a medical test confirmed that she had been raped. The pastor was thereafter arrested.

He said, “The pastor was like a foster father to the girl. She was ill and had gone to a hospital in the area. While returning from the hospital, she boarded the same bus with the pastor, who said he would take her to a place for prayers.

“Since the suspect was a family friend, she did not doubt him. So, they went to the pastor’s apartment, where he camped and raped her for three days. The victim’s mother did not even know about the deliverance prayer.

“On Monday, the landlord and some neighbours got suspicious of the pastor’s arrangement with the teenager and they alerted a non-governmental organisation in the area, which in turn invited the police. The girl was rescued and rushed to a hospital, where a medical test confirmed rape. The suspect was arrested immediately.”

Our correspondent learnt that Kike and her mother were thereafter referred to the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team and the Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation.

The DSVRT Coordinator, Lola Viviour-Adeniyi, said the team had taken up the rehabilitation of the victim.

She said, “It was an NGO, Rubies Ink, that brought the matter to our attention.

“The girl was taken away for prayer. She was in the pastor’s house at the Adalemo area for three days, and during that period, he raped her.

“The DSVRT reached out to the victim’s mother, but she maintained that she would not pursue any case. While admitting that the pastor defiled her daughter, the mother said the pastor had a three-month-old baby, and she did not want him to be jailed.

“However, we informed the police at Ojokoro division that the state government was interested in the matter.

“This prompted the transfer of the suspect to the SDCI, Yaba.

“At present, the girl is undergoing treatment. She was taken to the Mirabel Centre.”

The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Patricia Amadin, confirmed the pastor’s arrest.

She said, “The police have arrested the suspect, and the matter has also been transferred to the SDCI, Yaba.’’

Beyonce And Jay Z’ Heading For Divorce?!?

New reports are suggesting that queen Beyonce is planning to end her 7 year marriage to hip hop mogul, Jay Z!

According to RadarOnline, Jay Z’s failure to appear at the Made In America Festival during Beyonce’s performance of their duet, ‘Drunk In-Love’, hit song got fans speculating that there’s trouble in paradise.

Reports say that Jay Z was spotted dancing and singing to Bey’s songs as she rocked the stage in front of screaming fans; a source tells In Touch magazine that “It’s dead! Bey is sick of keeping up the ruse of happiness, and she’s done.”

The mag claims it’s like Bey is afraid of being asked questions about her marriage, hence hasn’t done any interview in the past 18 months; right before the notorious elevator outburst between Solange and Jay in May.

“It’s like she’s on lockdown and doesn’t want to be asked about her marriage or why she and Jay haven’t had another child after Blue Ivy. But in private, she’s already told friends and family that she’s moving forward with her life. She’ll soon make a public announcement that their marriage is over,” claims the source.

 Rumors have swirled for years that Jay Z has been cheating on his wife with everyone from Rihanna, Rita Ora to fashion designer Rachel Roy; however the source claims the couple’s pre-MTV VMAs fight could end their union.

“Earlier this summer, Bey found some suspicious texts on Jay’s phone that led her to believe he was having a secret flirtatious communication with one of his [female] proteges. Beyonce’s been on high alert for some time and took her new suspicions to one of Jay Z’s right hand men, who told her she needed to take that up with her husband. To Bey, that was a confirmation of her worst suspicions and fears,” a source told In Touch.

Neither Jay Z nor Beyonce has commented on these allegations, stay tuned to this page for updates!

TOO MANY YOUNG NIGERIANS DYING OF KIDNEY FAILURE, 4 THINGS TO KNOW [MUST READ]

Beyond the loss of a much younger sibling, my friend, Frank’s, devastation is understandably aggravated by the realization that she had had kidney problem for awhile without knowing.

The doctors had always treated her for ulcer or some other minor stomach ailment, but unbeknownst to all, her kidney was failing all the while. Last week, the vital organ gave up totally. She passed away… less than 5 months after her wedding, painfully.

To cut the story short, this young woman’s demise is another unfortunate reminder of not just the state of our healthcare system, but also our carelessness as human beings. This is not intended to excoriate the deceased but to put us, the living, on notice.

Prevention is better than cure, they say. And knowledge is power. It is rare for a kidney much less both kidneys to pack up overnight. It takes a while. And there are three major factors that can lead to kidney failure or kidney problems namely:
1. Chronic hypertension
2. Diabetes
3. Heredity
4. Self-medication, especially painkillers.

Knowing that you’re hypertensive or diabetic or there’s a history of kidney disease in your immediate or extended family could be a life-saver.

Thankfully, the tests for hypertension and diabetes are nothing compared to all the nonsense we spend our money on daily. Even KFT (Kidney Function Test) is inexpensive. And, of course, you can easily find out medical history of your family (one of the reasons some of us advocate for autopsy, which is more for the living than the dead).

As for self-medication, I personally view the practice as suicide. Why would you prescribe antibiotics, tranquilizer so or even painkillers for yourself? There are people who pop all manner of drugs everyday into their system for no reason. And even if there’s a reason to take drugs, why would a PR practitioner, like me, prescribe drugs to myself or any other person? A doctor friend told me paracetamol is, perhaps, the most abused and could be the major cause of sudden inexplicable kidney failure.

So, if you are genetically (family history) or medically (hypertension and/or diabetes) predisposed to Kidney disease, then you must do the KFT may be twice a year. And if you’re in the habit of swallowing paracetamol or some sexier, stronger painkillers, you better desist for you are putting your kidney at risk. As a matter of fact, that constant headache may be symptomatic of migraine or hypertension or some other more dangerous ailment that ought to be handled differently-and which could affect your kidney, if left untreated for long.

I’m not a doctor (isn’t that obvious?) but I’m concerned about the scary rising spate of deaths due to kidney disease in Nigeria. Another look at your lifestyle and a visit to your doctor (and your village or city, as the case may be) might be all you need to prevent this rampaging disease and live for as long as your Creator has programmed for you.

Emeka Oparah is a social commentator and public relations professional. He is on Facebook.

The opinions expressed in this article are solely those of the author.

SERIOUSLY WTF?? PHOTOS: CHECKOUT NEW MALE R&B SINGER HAS MORE HIPS THAN KIM K, NICKI, TOOLZ & CO.

Micah is an up-coming R&B singer that has more hips and a ss

than Kim K, K.Michelle, Nicki Minaj and every other big booty female you can think of. How the heck did this happen? How can a man have all that hips and butt? he’s 20 and has a great voice if you watch some of his videos.

See photos…

NIGERIAN SENIOR POLICEWOMAN DEMOTED AFTER SHE WAS CAUGHT HAVING SEX IN HER CAR

A Nigerian policewoman has been demoted after she was caught having se.x in a car inside the police college during a promotional examination course.

The married woman, simply identified as Helen, was said to have been discovered making love with another man, who is not her husband inside her personal car.

The incident would have been swept under the carpet, but it became an issue because the mother of four indulged in the se.xual escapade at the Ikeja Police College, where she and thousands of other policemen and women went for the ‘Sergeant to Inspector’ mandatory promotion course.

Rather than go back home and await her new rank of inspector, Helen left the training ground as a corporal.

According to a police source, the course was just for a month.

It started on June 24 and ended July 25.

All the trainees were warned not go out of the College or entertain any visitor during the examination, but Helen flouted the order.

The provost of the college, who warned that nobody should be seen after “light out” decided to carry out his usual security check around the College compound before turning in for the night.

He was, however, shocked to notice a car, with people inside.

He drew closer, beamed his torchlight and saw Helen and her partner stark Unclad, making love inside the car. They were ordered out of the car.

As soon as the provost started interrogating them, the man took to his heels and disappeared into the night.

Helen said the man was her lover and that the car belonged to her and nobody knew how the man came into the College.

10 TIPS TO PREVENT DEATH BY FIRE IN YOUR LAGOS HOME (PHOTOS)

A spate of fire accidents has been recorded in Lagos in the past two months and unfortunately, the number seems to be growing. Some of these accidents are caused by negligence which could have prevented an unfortunate incident. The effect of these fire accidents is loss of lives and properties.

Prevention is way cheaper, better and more reasonable than cure. Here are 10 ways to prevent fire accident in your Lagos home.

Turn Off All Appliances

Lagosians are always in a hurry to go about their daily lives leaving a lot of things unattended to. Whether power is available or not, it is important to make sure all electrical appliances are turned off when going out as an upsurge of power can result in a fire.

Repair/Change Faulty Appliances

The culture of managing or making do with what is available should not be employed when dealing with faulty appliances. Faulty sockets that spark when in use should be changed instead of managing it. This is financial reasonable than having to replace items destroyed in a fire accident.

Report Faulty Electricity Metres/Poles

A lot of homes in Lagos still use the old electricity metres or the old wooden poles which have seen better days. In order to prevent disaster, it’s safer to immediately report to the nearest Power Holding Company of Nigeria office to get replacement

Don’t Fill Generator While It’s Still Running

Some Lagosians have the habit of refilling a generator with petrol while it’s still running probably because they don’t want their television or other appliances to go off. This can be deadly as the already charged generator can be ignited when it comes in contact with fuel.

Don’t Place Candles Near Inflammable Items


Some Lagosians are not always conscious about places they place candles. Some people carelessly place candles on tables or on carpets instead of using chandeliers or other non-inflammable items. A candle placed on a table can fall and result in fire.

Don’t go to sleep with a candle on

Regardless of how safe the location of a candle is, it is safer to put the light out before going to sleep. Candles are prone to causing fire because they don’t have coverings. It’s better to use a battery torch on if necessary.

Handle Gas Cookers With Care

When using a gas cooker, care must be taken to follow safety measures. Gas is very volatile and requires that a user take precaution when turning the knob. Gas cylinders should also be examined for leakages too.

Use Ashtray

If you must smoke in the room, make sure you place the stub in an ash tray. You can then dispose the ash appropriately later. Be careful not to drop lighted cigarettes as the ember can ignite a fire.

Avoid ‘Resting’ When Cooking

Due to the issue of traffic in Lagos, some people return home late and tired but still insist on cooking. It is important to know that one should avoid the tempting rest that comes after one has placed the food on the stove. One should try to stay awake at all cost and not get onto the bed or couch to rest as one can drift to a deep sleep.

Take Matches Away From The Reach Of Children



Children are very curious and like to try things out. Avoid letting children play with matches or lighters. Make sure they don’t have access to fuel and other combustible items.

Dance Queen Kaffy Put Her Big B0 0by On Display (Photo)

Dacne queen, kaffy want you all to is her big organe, hope you enjoy the view

Unbelievable!! Meet The Man Running On Water For 125 Metres (Photo)

Shi Liliang can run on water. Kind of. He can run along planks that are floating on water, which is as close as you’re going to get, unless you happen to be Jesus.

He’s been running on water for ten years, and on Thursday broke his own record by managing to get 125 meteres across a lake.
It wasn’t his first attempt. He’s tried it five times before, so that Shaolin patience really does pay off.

He’s received quite a bit of attention for his stunt, but being the good monk that he is, he’s used it to focus on raising tuition money for underprivileged students.

LADIES!! SEE HOW YOU CAN MAKE YOUR BU TT BIGGER AND FULLER [LOOK]

A smaller waist can also make your bú tt appear bigger. Try exercises that will help you lose weight around your midsection. Exercises like leg lifts, planks, crunches etc. will help slim down your waist.

While some women are naturally blessed with big bú tts, some have to strive a little harder to get curvy glutes. Nevertheless, it is not an impossible feat. Here are some easy tips and tricks to make your bú tt look fuller.

The right posture

When you adopt the right posture especially while standing it flatters your body, thereby highlighting your curves. This will not only make your bú tt look bigger but it will also make you look taller and lean.

The runway walk

The right walk can also highlight your curves. Try to mimic a runway model’s walk by throwing your shoulders back and arching your lower back. Doing so will make your bú tt appear protruding, thereby creating a fuller image. This will not only help your bútt but will also slim down your torso, making your chest appear fuller.

Bú tt exercises

But apart from all the other tricks that make your bú tt appear fuller, exercise is the only natural way to actually make your bú tt bigger and curvier. Several exercises like squats, bú tt bridges, stiff-leg deadlifts, lunges etc. can strengthen your bútt muscles and make them larger.

Exercise for a smaller waist

A smaller waist can also make your bú tt appear bigger. Try exercises that will help you lose weight around your midsection. Exercises like leg lifts, planks, crunches etc. will help slim down your waist.

Wear a girdle or shapewear

Wearing a girdle or shapewear as this will help push the excess from your tummy down to the bú tt and hips. Apart from that it will also make your waist look slimmer, further making your bú tt look a little more prominent.

WHY MORNING S3X IS A WAY BETTER START TO YOUR MORNING THAN COFFEE

I’m a bonafide, no-holds-barred caffeine fiend.

It’s early in the week, and I’m in no mood to f*ck around: I’m a nasty, listless bitch before I’ve had my morning coffee.

Pre-caffeine, I have zero semblance of humor, and I don’t want to f*cking talk to you, regardless of how much I love you or how wonderful of a human being you are.

Basically, I’m a cruel zombie with no personality until I’ve had a mega cup of luscious, delightful, silken, gorgeously bitter, milk-adorned morning coffee.

As soon as the teeming hot creamy darkness makes its way down the confines of my throat, I’m brand new. Sparkling. Dangerously fresh. Sharp as a razor.

I go from being a horrendous, sleepy-eyed wonder-brat, to a hyper-engaged, laser-focused go-getter ready to take on this cruel, cold WORLD. It’s like I go from being a resting sloth to a fully erect meerkat in an instant.

I’m suddenly a brunette Elle Woods, ready to sing in the streets and prove to the world I’m a strong force of girl nature who cannot and will not be stopped from achieving my sky-high dreams of grandeur.

Despite my endless love and deep-rooted passion for all things pertaining to caffeine, I have come to learn, through the wisdom of age and the relentlessness of time, there is one other thing even more effective and far stronger than a cup coffee could ever hope to be.

The ultimate way to kick-start the day: MORNING SEX.

Yes, a nice bout of morning f*cking, my darlings, is the best way to get you and the pending day GOING. In fact, it sets you up for a whole 24 hours of unabashed success.

You will be radiating lustful vibrations at work; your face will have that gorgeous after-sex glow that even a $75 luxury Chanel foundation can’t manifest. You will be madly awake, gorgeously alive and ready to THRIVE.

So, ladies, listen up: Morning sex is the way to a better life. I promise.

I urge to you put down that cup of coffee and instead allot 20 minutes to devouring (and getting devoured by) your partner every morning.

Don’t fret if you’re single. After all, we don’t need another person to get off, do we girls?

So whether it’s with a partner or trusty Ms. Vibrator, here is how morning sex is more effective than a cup of coffee:

Coffee increases anxiety; s3x decreases it.

I’m an acute anxiety-sufferer. I’ve struggled with panic attacks for over a decade. I’ve seen doctors, specialists, therapist and even acupuncturists in hopes of relieving the spiraling anxiety that takes over my being from time to time.

And our lovely friend Ms. Caffeine is actually proven to exacerbate anxiety. Yes, while she wakes us in the morning, she can always take us on a dark turn for the worse.

According to the American Psychiatric Association, caffeine-related anxiety is a very real thing. 80 percent of Americans are avid, enthusiastic coffee-drinkers, and panic and anxiety disorders are the most common mental illnesses in the United States.

It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to connect the two, now does it?

S3x, on the other hand, decreases that pesky anxiety. Just being close to another person (kissing, hugging, f*cking) allows the body to release a lovely little feel-good hormone called “oxytocin.”

Oxytocin reduces stress and puts you in a relaxed state of authentic bliss. We do better work when we’re in a relaxed state, rather than a hyper-aware, anxious state.

Coffee has a comedown; with s3x, you just come.

Here is the truth, kittens: Coffee doesn’t actually give you real energy. It just makes your body feel less tired, so it’s falsified energy.

I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but the boost you feel post-coffee is artificial as f*ck.

When your body needs rest, it releases a lovely little compound called adenosine, which lets you know you’re tired and need to get some f*cking sleep.

The molecules in caffeine block and cover up your adenosine receptors so you don’t feel tired. But they’re still there, looming beneath the surface. It’s akin to putting a Band-Aid on a wound and pretending it’s healed.

Until the Band-Aid wears off, and the pain sets in. The coffee wears off, and you feel twice as tired. You crash. You feel epically drained and irritated until you have more coffee.

Thus starts the vicious caffeine rabbit hole. Your life becomes reduced to a “Groundhog Day” cycle of coming down and coming up. It’s no way to live.

S3x, on the other hand, doesn’t have a comedown — it only makes you come. Its physical activity gets your blood pumping with no pesky crash. An orgasm only lasts a short while, but its lovely lingering after effects make you feel lusty, and s3xy and desirous all day long.

Coffee scatters you; s3x centers you.

When I drink coffee, I get a surplus of insta-energy, but it’s wild, scattered-brained, panicked energy. In fact, caffeine makes me feel so sweepingly anxious, it’s hard for me to direct my focus toward one specific task.

Post my morning caffeine boost, I’m chatty, and multitasking and unable to stay on one topic for too long. I’m the ADD Millennial prototype: quick but with zero attention span. My thoughts quickly shift from one to the next without drawing any conclusions.

S3x makes me feel centered and Zen. I not only get a dose of my necessary morning exercise that helps to increase the serotonin levels in my brain (the hormone that makes us feel HAPPY), but just the sheer intimacy and affection associated with s3x helps me to feel grounded.

S3x is healthy. Being touched feels good. It cultivates the confidence that helps keep me feeling sane and focused.

Coffee gets cold; sex only gets hotter.

Look girls, coffee gets cold as quickly as it gets f*cking hot. That soothing, warm cup of coffee you began to slowly sip as you put on your morning mascara and painted your precious pout with red lipstick quickly turns cold.

And there is nothing in the world more dire and unappetizing than a cold cup of coffee.

Once the coffee makes that upsetting transition from scalding hot to lukewarm, it’s super depressing. It serves as a brutal reminder that all good things eventually will come to an end.

It’s a metaphor for the saddest part of our existence: “Nothing gold can stay,” (coined by American poet Robert Frost).

S3x only gets hotter the longer it goes on. The more you draw s3x out, the more you tease and play, the sweatier and s3xier it gets.

It serves as a metaphor for the most beautiful part of life: The power of pleasure.

Coffee dehydrates you; s3x gives you a lustful glow.

Coffee dehydrates you. When you’re dehydrated, it wickedly shows up in your face. Makeup can’t cover your dehydrated skin.

Your epidermis gets papery and dry. Dark circles make their way beneath the delicate surface of eyes. Your complexion loses its luster. You’re oily and sallow. It’s not a good look.

S3X gives you the gorgeous glow Hollywood can only dream of attaining. It provides you with that coveted “I just got f*cked” glint to the apples of your cheeks.

Every girl looks more beautiful after she’s had an orgasm (especially if it’s from herself). After s3x, you walk down the street, and all eyes are fixated on to you. It’s as if you are magnetic to the masses. You f*cking ooze sexiness.

S3xual energy is very different than artificial caffeine energy. S3xual energy is real and penetrates through your entire body. It’s the most powerful energy of all.

SHOCKER !!! USING FEMALE CON DOMS TO WIPE THE FACE IS THE LATEST BEAUTY SECRET

Beauty and makeup has been around for ages but women of today has taken the whole thing to a new crazy pitch. Some women secretly use female co ndoms as make up in South Africa.

The con dom comes with a sponge and the sponge is a quality product, The sponge is found inside the female co ndoms which are distributed by hospitals and clinics.

This is how dailysun.co.za is reporting it:THE YOUNG women rush to the clinic to get as many female con doms as they can lay their hands on.
While matrons think they want to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancies and STIs, these young women know better.

THEY KEEP THE LITTLE SPONGES FOR DOING MAKE-UP – AND THROW AWAY THE OILY BAG!

“The sponge is a quality product,” said Sandile Mkhebe (22) from Section A in Botshabelo, Free State.
“My friend introduced me to it and I’ve been using it without a problem for about six months.”

How successful the co ndoms are at protecting women from s exually transmitted infections or unwanted pregnancies is not known – but there are many beautifully made-up women in Botshabelo who are very happy.

“I see myself getting more beautiful,” said Sandile.

And, of course, the sponge is free. It is found inside the female con doms which are distributed by hospitals and clinics.

Before Sandile discovered the female con dom sponge she used to buy compacts because she needed the sponge to apply her make-up.

“I will never give up using it,” said Sandile.
“It saves me a lot of money.”
Puleng Mosupane (33) from M section said she waits to see the con doms being delivered to the clinic.
“Then I go quickly and get as many as I can,” she said, laughing.
One nursing sister at a clinic said it was disgusting to use a con dom sponge to apply make-up.

“The sponge’s job is to protect the punani from hurting during s*x. We see many women with s exually transmitted infections but they don’t want to use the con doms.”

Free State health spokesman Tebogo Oepeng was shocked.

“The department spends lot of money to make sure that women are protected and healthy. We condemn the use of the female con doms in this way,” said Oepeng.

“The department will not let the matter rest. We are going to conduct our own

SEE THE BBM BABE E XPOSED ONLINE FOR DISTUBING A GUY WITH HER NA KED PHOTOS

This our guy got tired of a lady that was disturbing him with her private photos on BBM, he said the lady requested for money so that she could send more of her full private photo and he was not interested but the lady didn’t stop bugging him. So the guy shared some of the photos the lady sent to him.

D’BANJ FINALLY REVEALS WHY HE IS STILL SINGLE (SEE HERE)

Dbanj the handsome and rich Koko master revealed to Saturday Beats why he is still single despite been linked to several beauties.

He said:

“While growing up, there were some goals I set for myself and at 35; I have accomplished most of them. Sadly, I have not accomplished the primary goals. The main one is marriage.

By now, I thought I would have been married. I had always thought I would have a child before the age of 30. That fantasy did not become a reality because I wanted to strengthen my brand. I wanted to be sure that I was on the right path career-wise because as a kid, you need to crawl before you can walk and eventually run. I wanted to be sure I surpass all boundaries and reach a certain stage where I can easily balance my work and family. That is the main reason why I am not married.”

He however said that he is proud of his other achievements as they have surpassed his widest imaginations.
He said:

“Apart from marriage, one other thing I desire to have is the Grammy but that is already in the pipeline and it would be acquired soon. I didn’t know I would meet Kanye West while I was dreaming big as a child. But I dreamt that I would go places and people would hear my song all over the world.

I also dreamt that Caucasians would dance to my music. I dreamt I would top music charts across the world and all that has happened. I have dreamt of performing in front of thousands of people on a global stage and I have achieved that. For all these I am grateful to God,”

12YR OLD GIRL CONTRACTS HIV AFTER HER STEP-BROTHER & HIS FRIENDS RAPE HER IN ABUJA

A 12-year-old girl (name withheld) has contracted the dreaded HIV/AIDS disease after she was allegedly raped by her 25 year old step brother, Abdullahi Mohammed and his friends at her father's house in Jahi district in Abuja.

According to Daily Trust, the girl's father and mother separated and the father married another woman who already had a son from a previous relationship.

Narrating what happened, the girl said her step brother started raping her when she was 8 years old and each time he raped her, he would threaten to kill her if she told their father.

“My father married my step mother who has a son. We were living peacefully until one night when I was lying on the floor and Brother Abdullahi came and started fondling my breasts. When he didn’t see breasts, he said he would suck them until they came out. When I objected, he raped me. He used a handkerchief to wipe off the blood that was coming out from my private part. He threatened to slash my throat if I told anybody. I didn’t tell anybody and it continued. He raped me every night; and sometimes he brought his friends, especially Ahmed along with him to rape me,” she said.

The girl said she feared she would be killed by her step brother or suffer maltreatment from her step mother if she told anyone what he was doing to her.

She was diagnosed with AIDS after her father took her to the hospital following her constant poor state of health. Doctors carried out various test on her and discovered she had HIV/AIDS. It was when her father, who was very angry, sought to know how she contracted the deadly disease, that she revealed that her step brother, Abdullahi and his friends, had raped her for four years. Subsequently, her father reported the case to the police at Mabushi and the two men were arrested. They confessed to the crime.

Police reports however shows that the case took a new twist when the two suspects were taken to the hospital and their medical reports came out HIV negative. It is been speculated that the girl's mother was HIV positive when she had her.

“She was not tested when she was an infant, and maybe she was HIV positive from birth. Her half brother confessed that he was the first man to have had sex with the victim and how she got that HIV still remains a mystery,” a police source said.

When contacted, the Mabushi divisional police officer, Chief Superintendent Ayobami Surajudeen confirmed the story and said that having gotten medical reports, the case would now be transferred to the State Criminal Investigation Department

PASTOR RAPES 16-YEAR- OLD DURING THREE-DAY DELIVERANCE PRAYER

The Lagos State Police Command has arrested a pastor, Abraham Sunday, for allegedly raping a 16-year-old girl, Kike (pseudonym) in Adalemo Estate, in the Toll Gate area, on the Lagos-Abeokuta Expressway.

PUNCH Metro learnt that Sunday, the pastor of Christ In All Nations Church in Adalemo, was arrested by the Ojokoro Police Division last Wednesday, September 2, from where he was taken to the Department of Criminal Investigation, Yaba.

It was gathered that Kike, who was ill, had been taken by the pastor to a house in Adalemo Estate on August 28 for deliverance prayer when the incident occured.

It was learnt that the victim’s mother, who said Sunday was a family friend, became apprehensive after she did not hear from her daughter.

The matter was said to have been reported to the police by the landlord of the house where Sunday allegedly camped the teenager to rape her.

A police source told our correspondent that after Kike was rescued, she was taken to a hospital, where a medical test confirmed that she had been raped. The pastor was thereafter arrested.

He said, “The pastor was like a foster father to the girl. She was ill and had gone to a hospital in the area. While returning from the hospital, she boarded the same bus with the pastor, who said he would take her to a place for prayers.

“Since the suspect was a family friend, she did not doubt him. So, they went to the pastor’s apartment, where he camped and raped her for three days. The victim’s mother did not even know about the deliverance prayer.

“On Monday, the landlord and some neighbours got suspicious of the pastor’s arrangement with the teenager and they alerted a non-governmental organisation in the area, which in turn invited the police. The girl was rescued and rushed to a hospital, where a medical test confirmed rape. The suspect was arrested immediately.”

Our correspondent learnt that Kike and her mother were thereafter referred to the Lagos State Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team and the Ministry of Women Affairs and Poverty Alleviation.

The DSVRT Coordinator, Lola Viviour-Adeniyi, said the team had taken up the rehabilitation of the victim.

She said, “It was an NGO, Rubies Ink, that brought the matter to our attention.

“The girl was taken away for prayer. She was in the pastor’s house at the Adalemo area for three days, and during that period, he raped her.

“The DSVRT reached out to the victim’s mother, but she maintained that she would not pursue any case. While admitting that the pastor defiled her daughter, the mother said the pastor had a three-month-old baby, and she did not want him to be jailed.

“However, we informed the police at Ojokoro division that the state government was interested in the matter.

“This prompted the transfer of the suspect to the SDCI, Yaba.

“At present, the girl is undergoing treatment. She was taken to the Mirabel Centre.”

The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Patricia Amadin, confirmed the pastor’s arrest.

She said, “The police have arrested the suspect, and the matter has also been transferred to the SDCI, Yaba.’’

MAN STEALS BABY, GIVES GIRLFRIEND TO SELL

The Abia State Police Command has launched a manhunt for a man, identified simply as Uchenna, from Owerri- Aba, for allegedly stealing a four month- old baby boy, who he gave to his girlfriend, Kelechi Uche, to sell.

The state Police Commissioner, Joshak Habila, who paraded Uche in Umuahia, said she was arrested by some members of the public at Osusu Aku, where she went to look for buyers.

According to the police boss, Uchenna and four other suspects, still at large, stole the boy at gunpoint on August 21, at Ntigha Uzo in the Obingwa Local Government Area of the state.

He added that Uchenna later handed over the baby to his lover to sell.

Habila explained that Kelechi drew the suspicion of some members of the public on August 26 when the baby started crying uncontrollably, but she could not breastfeed him.

The CP said she was nabbed by the curious members of the public following her incoherent and unsatisfactory answer when she was asked if she was the biological mother of the baby.

“She was immediately arrested and handed over to the police at Ugwunagbo division,” the CP added.

He added that upon interrogation, the suspect said the child was stolen by her boyfriend, Uchenna, and four others and given to her to sell.

The CP said the suspect also explained that the baby was first kept in the house of one Love Chinkata , also on the run, before she collected him to sell.

Habila said efforts were on to trace the biological parents of the baby and to also apprehend other fleeing suspects in connection with the crime.

The police also paraded three suspected robbers ─ Emeka Mbulo, 30; John Promise, 20; and Osinachi Iroka, 22.

According to the police, the suspects were arrested during a raid by detectives at Mbulo’s house following a tip-off that they were plotting a robbery operation.

The police said two locally-made pistols, N46,000 , three machetes, and a hammer were recovered from the suspects.

The suspects, however, denied the allegation.

Paul Okoye (P-Square) Breaks Down In Tears On Stage In America…SEE Why

One half of the P-Square group, Paul Okoye, broke down in tears on September 5 on stage while performing in Washington D.C.

During P-Square’s first performance of their America and Canada tour, Paul Okoye couldn’t hold back the tears when he remembered his late mother as he and his brother sang their popular hit number ‘Beautiful Onyinye‘.

According to the superstar singer, he cries sometimes when he performs this song.

“Sometimes I cry on stage, especially when singing beautiful onyinye, our late mum’s favorite song …..     I know she’s watching with our dad. Miss u guys….. DC 1 luv” wrote Paul Okoye yesterday (September 6) on his Instagram account. #
He shared a black and white picture of him on stage crying when he performed the song.

‘Beautiful Onyinye’ is off Psquare’s 2011 The Invasion. The song was famously remixed in 2012 featuring American rapperRick Ross.
The star twins lost their mother Mrs Josephine Okoye in 2012.

Naija Babe Collapses After Boyfriend Proposed To Her… See Why

Those who know them say the babe has given up on marriage and was already living with the guy full time as his ‘wife’, with or without marriage, after years of dating. So, it was a great shock for her that the guy still thought it wise to do the right thing and he did it in the presence of colleagues in her office.
See photo of the emotional moment below…

NOLLYWOOD ACTOR JIM IYKE, WELCOMES BABY WITH WHITE GIRLFRIEND (PHOTO)

Popular Nollywood actor, Jim Iyke who recently joined his other colleagues in venturing into their own business, welcomed his bundle of joy on Tuesday, September 1.

According to The African Eye magazine, Jim and his 23 year old Lithuanian girlfriend Dana Kinduryte welcomed a baby boy on September 1st at Grady Hospital, Atlanta. The child has since been named Harvis Chidubem Iyke.

Jim Iyke took to his Instagram page, on the day of the delivery of his baby boy and left a creepy message that got everyone wondering what must have happened to him.

The proud father took to his Instagram page saying “Fifty Shades of Mr IYKE. #ThankYouLord #EternallyGrateful #TearsOfJoy #CapriciousMan #Gladysmiling #Gladysboi #TheBlessedManChronicles”.

See post and more pictures below:

However, five months after the couple found out they were expecting a child, Jim moved Dana into his apartment in Atlanta where he took proper care of her. Jim was said to be present and assisted in the delivery of his first child.

Jim Iyke met Dana, a law graduate in London over a year ago but she didn’t even know he was a famous actor until three months after they started dating.